कोशिश करने वालो की कभी हार नही होती!

This is really turning out an act of a lazy..a very lazy person. When I have last published my post, that was 23.02.2011 and that post was posted after 01 year of silence. That day I have made a promise with myself that I will write my blog at least once in a week, if not daily like a diary. But after a gap of 3 years, I can say one thing definitely that I am not a person, who can keep his promise. My will power is not strong and my mental state is perpetually in a transition stage. In short fickle minded person is what I am!

Leave it....I am not a celebrity in whose analysis people will take interest..even I am not interested in my analysis.

The feeling  now-a-days is that life is running out of me and I am not being able to fully utilize it.This is really dreadful feeling. Is life all about making a livelihood? going to office and coming back? getting married and having kids? or is there something else also?

Lets see all the noise created by movies like 3 idiots, books like the alchemist etc. How many people have changed their life after watching 3 idiots or reading the alchemist? very few! you can count the numbers on your fingers! and there is strong possibility that all those who have changed their life could have been changed it without reading the alchemist or watching the 3 idiots!

The idea of changing the life of course comes from the mind which is not satisfied with the present condition....the condition of the country...personal life...professional life...etc. and the perpetual dissatisfaction arises out of this and that makes life difficult to live.


See, the mundane activities to get the livelihood is not what will give the pleasure to the soul...the activities of philanthropy is also a waste of time.. as the saying goes that if you are not happy yourself than you will not be able to make others happy.
So, living life as you wish to live and  doing the balancing act of mundane and other activities is what will give you pleasure. Pleasure comes out of creativity and it goes with the bondage and compulsions. And if you are not truly determined to change yourself , mind will play every trick in its armor to make sure that you will remain slave of your habits. Watching inspirational movies and reading self help or other books will not help.
going beyond mind will help..so lets try once again...make promises once again...and till then read this poem:

लहरों से डर कर नौका पार नहीं होती,
कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती,
नन्हीं चींटी जब दाना लेकर चलती है,
चढ़ती दीवारों पर, सौ बार फिसलती है,
मन का विश्वास रगों में साहस भरता है,
चढ़कर गिरना, गिरकर चढ़ना न अखरता है,
आख़िर उसकी मेहनत बेकार नहीं होती,
कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती,
डुबकियां सिंधु में गोताखोर लगाता है,
जा जा कर खाली हाथ लौटकर आता है,
मिलते नहीं सहज ही मोती गहरे पानी में,
बढ़ता दुगना उत्साह इसी हैरानी में,
मुट्ठी उसकी खाली हर बार नहीं होती,
कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती,
असफलता एक चुनौती है, इसे स्वीकार करो,
क्या कमी रह गई, देखो और सुधार करो,
जब तक न सफल हो, नींद चैन को त्यागो तुम,
संघर्श का मैदान छोड़ कर मत भागो तुम,
कुछ किये बिना ही जय जय कार नहीं होती,
कोशिश करने वालों की कभी हार नहीं होती……….